Sunday, August 29, 2010

Most Touching Story-Love has no reason

Lady: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?


Man : I can't tell the reason. But I really like you...


Lady : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?


Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.


Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!


Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,


because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.


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Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went into the coma stage.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:



Darling,

Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you...Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movement that I love you...Now can you smile? Now can you move?

No, therefore, I cannot love you.

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore, I still love you...And love doesn't need a reason


With love always,

Forever yours.


Source: Cute love story; Love has no reason

Friday, August 27, 2010

Honour killings

What are they?
The term ‘Honour killings’ generally refers to the act of murder, attempted murder or violence toward a woman by a male relative on the basis of personal or family honour. Honour is threatened when a woman engages in, or is suspected of engaging in, an immoral act. The reality, however, is a lot broader.

First of all, it is not only men who engage in honour killing. Whilst husbands, fathers and brothers are normally the perpetrators, female family members are often involved in the planning and set-up. In some cases, tribal councils, or ‘jirgas’ give the order for men to engage in specific honour killings.

Secondly, the notion of ‘immoral’ is defined as any perceived form of shame to a man or family. This shame can come in various actual or suspected forms, including: adultery, rape, flirting, being seen with a man (unchaperoned), marrying or expressing interest in marrying one’s own choice, attempting to or obtaining a divorce.

‘Honour Killings’ is the name given to the practice when it occurs within an Islamic context. This does not mean that the phenomenon is limited to Islamic society, as the practice exists in other cultures and countries, such as India and Latin America, and is known by other names such as bride burnings and dowry deaths. It is worth noting that Honour Killings are not a ‘religious’ practice but are a cultural phenomenon.

Who is being killed for honour?

Honour killings occur in both private and public settings, with public acts often either ignored by passers-by or even spurred on by group approval. Many public killings are the result of the decisions of tribal councils ordering retribution in this manner. Whilst women represent the majority of victims, men associated with women in acts of immorality sometimes receive the same punishment. Whilst serious, this is less common as men are sometimes given the opportunity to compensate and, as the woman is traditionally killed first, they have more of a chance to flee.

It is unclear how many people are victims of honour killings with some reports, such as from Amnesty, saying hundreds, and others, such as the National Geographic and UN, reporting in the thousands. Whilst it is acknowledged that there is a critical lack of statistics on honour killings, there is consensus that the real figure is far greater than what is recorded. This is because families and authorities collectively act to cover up incidents, referring to deaths and abuse as suicides or accidents.

Honour killings are a global issue, with violence and killing in the name of honour being recorded in Afghanistan, Argentina, Bangladesh, Britain, Brazil, Denmark, Ecuador, Egypt, Germany, Guatemala, Holland, India, Iraq, Iran, Israel, Italy, Jordan, Lebanon, Morocco, Pakistan, Palestine, Peru, Sweden, Syria, Turkey, Uganda, Venezuela and the West Bank. Despite this, the majority of honour killings occur in the Middle East, in Muslim settings. It is important to note that Islamic law and religion do not support the practice. The practice in fact has tribal roots which precede Islam and can be traced back to the Hammurabi and Assyrian tribes of 1200 B.C. It stems from a belief that women, like livestock and land, are the property of men, and that it is a man’s role to ensure a stable family structure. A woman’s virginal status is seen as both the property and responsibility of the man.

Why in the name of honour?

In some Islamic communities, the structure and status of the family are paramount to the condition of the society. Family status is directly linked to family honour, and family honour is directly linked to the female’s perceived moral integrity. This is a deep-rooted, long-standing aspect of the belief system amongst some Islamic communities.

Why aren’t women protected?

Whilst honour killings violate various rights outlined by the Declaration of Human Rights, legal systems in the countries where most honour killings occur allow for the practice to continue with no or minimal repercussions. These countries include Jordan, West Bank and Palestine. Other areas where the law makes some form of allowance are Argentina, Brazil, Bangladesh, Ecuador, Egypt, Guatemala, Iran, Israel, Lebanon, Morocco, Peru, Syria, Turkey and Venezuela.

Whilst some countries make allowances for men who have killed close female relatives in the name of honour, others prescribe lighter sentences for such an act, with average sentences ranging from three months to a year. Many families avoid longer sentences by giving the task of murder to under-age men. Patriarchal legal structures make things hard for women who want to prosecute. For example, in Palestine, a woman’s case for rape is valid only if she is accompanied by an immediate male family member.

This is not to say that there is consensus about the practice in these countries. For example, King Abdullah II of Jordan has supported legislation that will outlaw honour killings. In taking this stance, he has inspired others who oppose honour killings to become stronger in their convictions.

Whilst women at risk could seek asylum in another country, a lack of education about the process, limited access to relevant authorities, lack of financial independence to do so and corruption within police systems all contribute to making escape difficult. In some instances, women who try to escape are found and killed.

source: Honour Killing

Friday, August 20, 2010

Raksha Bandhan

Raksha bandhan is one of the most popular festivals in India. Celebrating the divine bod of love between brother & sister, Raksha Bandhan is also known as 'Rakhi'. Sisters tie a delicate cord of 'Rakhi' on their brother's wrist, pulsating with sublime sentiment and pray for their long life. Brothers, in turn, give them enticing rakhi gifts and vows to protect and care for them life long. Thus, the affectionate festivity of Raksha Bandhan becomes a token of blessings, wishes, enthusiasm & love.

When is Raksha Bandhan?
Raksha Bandhan is celebrated on the full moon day of the month of Shraavan (as per Hindu calendar), i.e. in the months of July and August. As Rakhi is celebrated as per the Hindu calendar the dates may vary year after year. In 2010 - Raksha Bandhan will be celebrated on Tuesday, 24th of August.

What is Rakhi Ceremony?
Rakih ceremony is one of the most interesting and loving ceremonies performed in India. An amazing bond of love shared among siblings is what celebrated on the day of Raksha bandhan. Sister select the brightest and the best designed 'Rakhi' for their brothers. Then they prpare the sacred 'thaali' to perform the 'aarti' of their brothers. Best of the sweets along with the Rakhi, vermillion and few grains of rice form part of the pooja thali. Brother's aspire to strive for thr protection of their loving sisters and facilitate them with exclusive gifts. On this Rakhi occasions gifts are exchanged and special Rakhi Recipes like Ghevar, Vermicelli Kheer, Malpua, Kesar Burfi, Pista Sandesh & Rava Laddoo are prepared to fill this day with lots of sweetness...

Best Gift Ideas on Raksha Bandhan
Love, care and affection of a brother-sister relationship can never be redeemed at any cost. However, special gestures like having a quality time with each other or buying some gifts can be a great idea. We bring to you some of the most popular gift ideas on the occasion of Raksha Bandhan :
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» Apparels- Check out the new trends of apparels in market and shop for an exclusive dress for your sister. Don't forget to consder your sister's choice and going by season.
» Fashion Jewelry- Surprise your sister with a set of stunning jewelry that will enhance her personality. Choose from antique jewelry, bracelets, rings, earrings, pendants, chains etc.
» Leather Bags & Wallets- Gift your sis a beautiful leather bag to make it a lifelong posession of love. Beaded bags and wallets with lots of mirror work will surely show some magical effects.
» Soft Toys- Give an adorable expression to your sister with silky and cute soft toys. Sweet soft toys are best way to express your tender emotions and feelings for your cute sis.
» Household Utility Items- Present your sister some household items like paintings, show piece, candle stand or even utensils. Such items will not only beautify her place but also provide lifetime remembrance.
» Decorative Items- Get around and shop for some decorative items like like showpiece, photo frame, hanging bells etc. Intricately designed with wonderful message can feel your sister how strong bonding both of you enjoy.
» Cakes and Chocolates- Bring on mouthwatering cakes and chocolates loaded with your love and care. Creamy, soft cakes will surely test her taste buds. A big pack of her favorite chocolate will surey bring a big smile on her face.
» Cash- The most common gift for sisters on raksha Bandhan is cash money. Facilitate the most beautiful girl in your life - your sister with some money in cash. She will use it according to her will.

source: Raksha Bandhan

LAFANGEY PARINDEY


Lafangey Parindey (Lafange Parinde) movie is a love story set in the gritty streets of Mumbai.

The film is about bike gangs in Mumbai.Neil Nitin Mukesh plays the character of One Shot Nandu, a fighter who pummels his opponents in the ring blindfolded. Deepika Padukone play Pinky Palkar, a dancer who is blind but ambitious and dances with roller skates on her feet.

He teaches her to see and she teaches him how to love. But what price will they have to pay for their love?

A Most Touching Cute Love story ...........



Two butterflies were in love.........
One day, they decided to play Hide n Seek.......

During the play.....
Boy Butterfly - "A small game within us"
Girl Butterfly - "OK"
Boy Butterfly - "The one who sits in this flower tomorrow early in
the morning.....that one loves the other one more....."
Girl Butterfly - "OK"

Next morning, the boy butterfly waits for the flower to open so that
he can sit before the girl butterfly does......

Finally, the flower opened.....
What did he see.....?????........

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The girl butterfly had died inside the flower.....

She stayed there all night......so that early in the morning......as
soon as she sees him.......she can fly to him and tell him how much she
loved him........

This is true LOVE....
Life is LOVE.......


LIVING MIGHT MEAN TAKING CHANCES, BUT THEY ARE WORTH TAKING......
LOVING MIGHT BE A MISTAKE, BUT ITS WORTH MAKING........


Source-A Cute Love Story

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Dabang Movie Trailor



Dabang, Salman Khan’s home-production produced by brother Arbaaz Khan, is likely to release during EID this year (September 10th).
For EID last year, Salman made a super-successful comeback with Wanted, which went on to smash box office records at single screens.
Directed by newcomer Abhinav Kashyap, Dabang an out-an-out action film also stars Sonakshi Sinha (on debut), Arbaaz Khan, Sonu Sood, Mahie Gill, Dimple Kapadia, Om Puri, Vinod Khanna, Anupam Kher and Mahesh Manjrekar. The music of the film has been composed by Sajid – Wajid.
Most likely release date – September 10th 2010